Letting Things Happen

While im all for letting a relationship take it's
natural course on some level, i think in my past i
have done that, and ended up in a relationship where
the two people had vastly different expectations of
what the relationship should entail.

I think at the moment i have a pretty good balance
right now between letting things happen and having
some pretty good in depth discussions about what we
think a relationship should be. I guess to me it's been
more a case of good, open, honest communication,
rather than forced debate on the subject. That
certainly wouldnt be good.

Im posting this via e-mail so i have no idea if it
will work. I cant post or comment from work pcs, so
this is my only option if im feeling like
communicating from here.